“Starting in my childhood, I believed that anything is possible and open to choice. And I still do. (You haven’t seen everything yet.) Beyond that, a good attitude is crucial in dealing with whatever change, obstacle, problems, misery, and sufferings.”
She concurred, having just gone through a death which appears to have happily freed her and made her much happier. She has become a greatly changed person.
Anything is possible example. For instance, I never believed I would own a very rare signed Virginia Woolf (in purple ink no less), but knowing it was possible despite the significant expense, I chose to.