The Need to Connect:

To hear one’s name softy/gently/kindly spoken.
To be hugged, kissed, and touched appropriately.
To be listened to. To converse with others.
To be part of a group.
To be understood and appreciated.
Simple stuff always in any situation.
Guaranteed to work.

The total opposite of:
Being ignored or misunderstood.
Being instantly criticized and trolled.
Being rejected on the basis of appearance.
Being irrationally hated or excluded without being known.